Grateful vs. prestige

Philippians 4:11 "say this is not because of lack of, because I have learned replenish themselves in all circumstances."

Buying Hp why we are much more expensive from the necessity we?
Why should I buy a car once you far more expensive than we need?
Why do we often do not want to break down and engage in debate with other people?
How many people even fight to kill only because of the shoulder by a small problem?
How many people in debt to the Maximum Style Living, with a minimum income?

The answer ... By the prestige of one of the words enough to make us self terusik .. What we do not have prestige clothing luxury car .. good .. good home, the latest HP, Gadget Or Advanced .. even our dignity to apologize even if we do what we are wrong because we are older age. Humans want to be valued, this is good. Unfortunately, we often kebablasan, haus akan we pride ourselves do not have habis2nya. Up we always want to win from other people, always want to be respected, want to serve. Mati2an we protect ourselves not to disinggung people, not to be humiliated or degraded. But a lifetime to protect our self busy kita.Kenapa proud when people have luxury? What if people have no shame? Just because people want to feel themselves better than others. While we certainly do better because the rich.

Prestige is the 'honor and influence as a major act'. Remember as a major act. not the goods and the ownership of the "big". It appears at this time we are increasingly materialistic society, people praised as material wealth. If you proud when rich and poor Malu offended. But the scramble to be rich or wealthy is called with any way, whether the deception, theft, corruption or whatever, you become rich and important people visible. that is the negative effect of an odor.

Many people incorrectly kaprah prestige beginning of the excessive pride of what it has and it is perfect than others. So that it can reduce social sensitivity. He can only assume all matters outside himself not urusannya. Especially at the lower underneath .. If prestige or shame can be eliminated provided that the work is lawful and does not violate the law I think unemployment can be pressed. There are still many around us that after they finish school or university have to work in the appropriate place jurusannya, or in other words become disebuah company employees or government officials. Must be recognized prestige that gave favors in the sense of our ego. Many people eat because of the prestige of living in a dilemma, mutually HP, have a good item, but Ujung-end debt is large and menggunung chase each other and be pursued by Debt Kolektot, Malu engga do.

Starbuck in the country of origin, is a coffee shop that offers the atmosphere. Thus, the drinker can enjoy the comfort while sitting and not just think kopinya. In Indonesia, some benefit from this shift began. This occurs, in part because consumers are going to the coffee shop is really only want to pursue the status of mere. Similarly, many cafes that class, let kafenya deliberately open and easy views of people. Because the prestige, many consumers are interested in and they already get kepuasannya status when they picked up when entering the cafes which is expensive. In fact, they can get the price much cheaper and with a sense no less. They buy the prestige, not to buy food and minumannya.

Why sometimes choose to buy jacket-coat designer made his name famous the world that is not because the sky is tiny in size, not because potongannya also a more slender. Labels sewn in the suit that makes us bounce participate together, and are not directly associated with something that expensive. Why attack us and ask to write the name gelarnya as complete as possible. Prof Dr XXX, Eng, MM, Msi. People who choose not actually have the prestige what should of. That is, act big. Therefore, to gain respect as simple IM and we do all the "big" is.

What causes this odor? First to be sure because our culture and norms. There are at least third and cultural norms that make a prestige that this needs to be going fast. First, consumers like India for socialization. This then encourages a person to show off or tempted to show off each other. Second, we still follow feudal culture. This is creating social classes. Finally, there was rebellion for fast moving class. Indeed, even if it has not moved the classroom, but can be started with the first show. Third, our society is the measure of success with the material and position. Finally, many of us want to show success in a way to show many of the materials.

Try to think what I think people appreciated apalah use only by showing such things. I'm more proud if I can help many people but he does not know, but compared to a little-blown, it only shows the lack of it, only the hubris themselves, do not need prestige. people who chase prestige was being rewarded for thirst? Because it can be, the award came from the self is not sufficient to satisfy mind. My friend and I still need to seek and obtain additional dose of recognition from the outside. Reverence for the behavior from the outside that is not useful, apalah use?

Some tips to discredit
- Enjoy what you have just had, and not that you do not have.
- Do something with the heart that really know why you should do that, no longer participate in the trend-following. that only momentarily.
- Be resourceful. Give yourself the opportunity to be the result of your mind and act.
- Become humble & Simple Living
- Be your own Self, you are unique
- Many do

Liver disease is not easy to be crushed. Prestige will continue as long as we have not made yourself with the observation that man is the same. Created with the skin clean and at times can be dirty by land, also created with shame. So there is no reason for us to do the prestige is good, although many are located outside the customs men. Prestige is a supporter of the incessant ads and promotions that put the prestige as the main part. As a result, people who already have the potential to be gengsi.Sering hear that the rice should contain the bow. However, the content of the rice community is too important odor free seringan cotton. So Please Masihkan prestige in life .. Try to check your heart and intellect.

Source: email submissions of Mr. Erwin Arianto